My husband is as some of you might know, submissive and locked up in a chastity cage. He doesn’t get to cum very often but cleanup after his orgasm is mandatory for the following reasons:
- In our marriage his cock is my property (which I keep locked up) and his orgasms are gifts from me. The power I feel when telling him to “clean!” and he obeys is a huge turn on for me.
- With males, the dopamine levels in their brains and their libido drops immediately after release. At that moment men are neither horny nor especially submissive. When I tell him to “lick it up!” or “suck it out!” it immediately re-inforces his submissiveness which is needed for our FLR to work.
- My husband is a submissive. The humiliation of the act turns him on. Cleaning up helps to get him horny again, Faster. I also need him constantly horny for our lifestyle to work.